THE REASON SO MANY YOUNG MEN ARE AFRAID OF GETTING MARRIED NOW is because their income is low and they are afraid of being disrespected, put down and insulted by their wife!
They are rather waiting for the time they have “enough” to meet “all her needs” and “win” her respect!
If you do that, two things may happen: 1. You may never get married 2. You may marry a woman who loves you for your money, nothing more!
Some highly successful business men in the the world confessed they had nothing, I mean nothing when they married their wives. Cosmas Maduka, owner of COSCHARIS, a multi billionaire luxurious car dealer said he was in poverty when he married his wife at 20! Mensa Otabil, a very successful preacher, founder, chancellor of a university and business man in Ghana, also said he had nothing! No plate, no spoon, no chair, no bed, no nothing! When he married his wife! Fela Durotoye said he had only a table and a chair! Ben Carson, the world celebrated Neuro surgion was still struggling in school when he met candy! The list goes on!
You will only have very serious problem in marriage if , you are lazy and have an entitlement mentality! If you believe your wife is the one to pay all your bills and rescue you for life then don’t bother to marry please, marriage is not for you!
Some women have married such men hoping they will break into wealth after marriage but their dreams were shattered when the man refuse to dream, work hard, shatter limitations and walk into greatness!
If you marry a woman to impress her with your money, you don’t have a wife, you have a contract! She is to supply you respect and submission while you supply her money! The day your money is over, so is your marriage!
Things happen! People lose their jobs, businesses may crash! What will she do when you no longer make money and desperately need her support? That is when you will know whether you married a wife or a disaster!
I hope this post is simple enough?
May you receive the grace to step out in faith and do the needful!
When you marry a good woman who believes in you and you work hard leaning on God’s wisdom and power to get wealth, you are the next billionaire the world is waiting for!
Amen?
Thanks for reading, God bless you!
Cheers!
Credit: Seun Oladele
Peoplesmind
