Nigerian singer Yemi Alade recently shared her thoughts on how to gauge the depth of a relationship. According to her, the true strength of a relationship is revealed only after experiencing a quarrel.
Yemi Alade took to X (formerly Twitter) to express this insight, writing, “Until you have quarreled with your friend or partner, you will never know the true depth of your relation-SHIP or Canoe.”
Through her post, she emphasized that disagreements can serve as a test of the bond between partners or friends. It’s during these moments of conflict that the real nature and resilience of the relationship become evident.
Yemi’s statement suggests that navigating through challenges together can either strengthen the connection or expose underlying weaknesses. By comparing a relationship to a “ship or canoe,” she humorously pointed out that not all relationships are built to withstand the same level of strain, and only through conflict can one truly understand its durability.
Her message resonated with many of her followers, sparking discussions on the importance of conflict resolution in maintaining strong, healthy relationships.
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