Especially when you’ve been dragging and discussing just sex for weeks and he’s been pressuring you about it.
After that sex, Babe, there’s this beautiful silence 🤣🤣
Everybody begins to think now with their senses…
That’s when the question you’ve avoided to ask from the beginning will start disturbing your mind… “WHAT ARE WE?”
Bro will say, we are whatever you want us to be o! As long as we might have more or I’m not interested again…
Communication slows down, calling slows down, interest dies down, no more 24hr chatting, then you get agitated and seem like you’re too clingy, obsessed or needy..
Then you just give up and the regrets come rushing in…
BUT…
LET HIM KEEP CHASING, disturbing, calling, he might either make the marriage happen so he can actually be with you and until then, the interests still remain the same because A FOOD NOT TASTED WILL REMAIN UNTASTED, CURIOSITY WON’T COME DOWN UNTIL IT’S TASTED.
Either that or he leaves to go find an easy prey, in that case, you have no regrets, nothing to be needy about, you simply assume he’s not the one and let go, nothing to hold on to… which is easier…
Premarital sex is not the right choice or option. It’s best to hold on to your dignity and watch them walk away than feel awkward and used while watching them reduce their efforts, chasing skills or interest or walk away..
Better be Safe than to be Sorry!
Peoplesmind