One prevalent issue in modern marriages is the frequent lack of interest in s3x exhibited by many married women. It is a common trend for married women to be hesitant to initiate s3xual activity.
I understand that it can be frustrating sometimes, especially if you once had a healthy and active s3x life.
But remember, a problem can’t be fixed until the cause is known. That’s why we want to look at the most common reasons most married women are never in the mood or do not initiate s3x.
1. A NATURAL THINGY.
By default, men have a higher s3xual drive compared to women. Research says that 51% of men would like to have s3x at least every day compared to only 7% of women who like to have s3x everyday.
So, yeah, it is just normal if the man is always the one doing the chase.
2. THE MOM MODE.
Most couples usually begin marriage with an exciting s3x life, with the wife initiating s3x, but once the wife gets pregnant, the mom mode activates and things change.
Most pregnant women experience low libido due to hormonal fluctuations.
Men must understand that pregnancy is a handful for women. Your pregnant wife will most likely not make a s3xual move due to the many physical, mental and psychological disorders accompanied by pregnancy.
For instance, anxiety is a common theme among pregnant women; she may wake up and start watching videos of how to push during labour. The thought of what awaits her when she’s due for delivery can become predominant in her mind, and that alone is enough to override any s3xual desire.
I wish there’s time to dwell more on this aspect.
3. FATIGUE
Fatigue simply means extreme tiredness. This is most common among breastfeeding and nursing moms. The trouble does not end after a pregnant woman delivers, it continues through the nursing and breastfeeding stage.
Caring for an infant is a lot of work. Sadly it is a 24/7 work, there’s no break. Nursing and breastfeeding
Iretomihwa
Peoplesmind
