1. An unchecked ego.
Remedy: get some accountability partners in your life who will hold you accountable & keep you honest.
2. Any addiction to a substance or drug.
Remedy: seek professional help.
3. An insecurity that stops you from learning from those better than you.
Remedy: check yourself. That little voice whispering “danger” to you is lying.
4. Fear of confrontation that stops you from engaging high-conflict conversations that could help you grow.
Remedy: Dont think about the conflict too much. Have the conversation.
5. Talking too much. Especially when it’s unnecessary.
Remedy: get comfortable in the uncomfortable silence.
6. Talking about your future plans.
Remedy: shut up! Learn to tell people what YOU HAVE DONE not what you are GOING TO DO. People cant sabotage or destroy what they dont know.
7. Keeping fake friends.
Remedy: Dont worry, time, life and struggle with reveal who your true friends are. When it does, trust that revelation and dump your old friends. This is not disloyalty. It’s growth.
8. Over-committing.
Remedy: learn to say “no”. And then learn to live what the idea that it was not meant for you. What you say no to is as important as what you say yes to.
9. Being too available.
Remedy: learn the people of a limited supply of something. Be scarce. People value what is not easily available.
10. The wrong partner.
Remedy: you are not likely to make the right choice in a partner the first time. When it revealed to you, trust that revelation.
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