1. Not every time is time to have sex. Find out the state of your spouse first.
2. If you are a man who climaxes too quickly, study your timing to stop pumping and come out of her when you feel you are about to climax. This will delay your ejaculation.
3. Don’t spend too much time doing one sexual thing whilst making love. Your spouse might get bored. Good timing is when you transition to the next sexual act after adequate exploration. For example, don’t kiss for too long, don’t lick for too long, don’t play with the nipples for too long, don’t do one sex position for too long.
4. Don’t transition to the next sexual act too quickly before your spouse even enjoys what you were doing. Don’t rush the kissing, the foreplay.
5. Don’t approach your spouse for love making when you know very well his/her mind is somewhere else; perhaps rushing to finish a deadline, rushing to leave for work, preoccupied with the children. Don’t take offense if your spouse turns you down. It is not that your spouse doesn’t want you, it’s just not the right time.
6. Gentleman, as you pump inside your wife and you realize she is about to climax; that is not the time to stop or slow down. That is the time to pump harder or faster as she wants it. She is about to climax. If you mess up when almost there, it might take her a while to get there again.
7. During love making is the wrong time to talk about domestics, chores, work, responsibilities and duties. Everything else can wait, focus on pleasure.
8. Lady, when your husband is horny for you and you are in a position to give it to him, don’t make him wait for too long. Strike while the iron is hot.
9. After the husband has ejaculated. Give the penis time before the next episode so that it can rejuvenate. If you rush it, it might erect but lose hardness mid-way because it hasn’t adequately breathed.
10. Withdrawal method is all about timing. The man must master the precise time to come out of her when he feels the ejaculation is almost. This works best with all sexual positions besides the one where she is on top of him. When the wife is on top, the husband has less control of his penis.
11. When life gets busy, you two might have to resort to intentionally creating time for love making or else you will end up having a sexless marriage.
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