This is my 14th year on social media, especially Facebook and I have come to realise that social media is a psycho-social analytical tool.
This means, I have been observing the trends of human actions and inactions on social media and interpreting them into real life realities
From 2011 to 2020, there was an atom of cultural decorum and social consciousness on social media. Most of our (African) women tend to exhibit a culture of traditionalism and chastity.
Meanwhile, the trend took a new turn from the COVID-19 era (2020) till present and this was worsened by the advent of Tik-tok, social media validation, fake lifestyles, Clout-chasing, sensualism and of course, misandrism.
This is one of the reasons for the high rate of divorce, single ladies, single mothers (not genuine victims)and babymamas because marriageable men prefer to marry educated or half-educated women with traditional values rather than educated women with western values (erratic-feminism).
These signs, many men have seen it but for those who have not seen it, and some ladies who cannot resist the impulse to disagree with me, I will highlight the 10 categories of red flags potential grooms should never ignore when choosing a life partner in this current dispensation:
1. Don’t marry her if is a die-hard follower of these people:
A. Tonto Dike
B. Korra Obidi
C. Blessing CEO
D. Saidaboj
E. Iyabo Ojo (Queen Mother)
F. Tacha
G. Angela Okorie
H. Nkechi Bianze
All the above are great influences in her life and she will approach marriage with the mindset of an anti-men mentality and eventually, manipulate and divorce you in the long run for her ulterior motives.
2. Don’t marry her if she constantly posts or reacts with a love emoji ❤️ to content that is pro-divorce, anti-marriage and anti-men.
3. Don’t marry her if she is fond of saying “I can’t settle for less”. I can’t date a broke guy. I can’t accept your family member to live with us. I can’t this. I can’t that. Women set rules for Simps but break rules for who they love and respect.
4. Don’t wife her if she once cheated on you while dating. Don’t forgive cheating. Don’t forget cheating. They don’t cheat on who they love. Once she cheats on you, the love is gone!
5. Don’t marry her if she is billing you all the time without reciprocating your benevolence. Women have money, depending on who is asking. If you give and she never gives to you, even if it’s a token, run!
6. Don’t marry her if she says you can’t control her. You are meant to control her with your wisdom, provision and masculinity. Uncontrollable? Unmarriageable!
7. Don’t marry her if she is fond of showcasing her bwess and nyansh seductively on social media. Marry her and see yourself marrying community wife! You may think she is strictly for you but she’s “streetly” for the streets!
8. Don’t marry her if all she brings to the table is sxx. A woman without value is as good as the letter “t” in the world “listen”. She will “silent” your life and be a liability that will exhaust your durability. She must have work to support you. Avoid parasitic women!
9. Don’t marry her if she is still communicating with her ex. She is not done with dude. Leave her. Let her heal or she will turn you to a rebound. A healing tool and after healing, she will crawl back into his arms.
10. If she has anger issues, jealousy and gets triggered at every slightest provocation, don’t wife her. She will do worse after moving in with you. A temperamental woman is a time bomb!
There are a number of other reasons you should consider before marrying nowadays. One other reason why you should not marry her is if she rudely disagrees with a post like this. You have no business wifing a mannerless woman!
Peoplesmind
