Alhaji Ali Kamal has stirred up conversations with a bold social media post directed at wives who object to their husbands chatting with other women. He argues that such interactions are normal and that it’s unreasonable for wives to expect men to stop a habit that, according to him, predates marriage.
“Were you not chatting boys before you met your husband?” he asks, defending his point that casual chats and friendships outside of marriage are natural. He suggests that wives should relax and not try to control their husbands’ social habits, noting that relationships have historically involved some level of polygamy and “side-chick culture.”
His post has sparked heated discussions, with some supporting his view on the flexibility of social boundaries in marriage, while others criticize it, calling for respect and loyalty in relationships.
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