An old African proverb says, “When you throw a stone into the market, it may land on the head of your family member.” This wisdom resonates deeply in today’s Nigeria, where many who once championed tribal and religious sentiments during the 2023 elections are now experiencing the bitter consequences of their choices. The chant of “Emilokan!” (meaning “It’s my turn” in Yoruba) echoed through the nation as supporters rallied behind their candidate, blinded by the belief that he was “one of them”—the same tribe, the same religion, and their supposed savior. But now, months into his administration, many of those same people are disillusioned, cursing the very man they once celebrated.
The Rise of Sentiment-Driven Politics;
The 2023 election saw a surge in tribal and religious politics, where candidates were judged more on their ethnic and religious affiliations than their ability to lead effectively. The Emilokan slogan, a powerful rallying cry, captured the emotions of a people desperate to see one of their own in power. But as the proverb warns, what was meant to uplift has turned into a source of pain for many. The decision to prioritize sentiment over competence has backfired, and those who once shouted “He is our man!” are now openly expressing regret.
Many who voted based on these shallow affiliations now find themselves feeling betrayed, as they grapple with economic hardship, insecurity, and a government that seems out of touch with the reality on the ground. The price of sentiment-driven politics is now all too clear—when you make decisions based on identity rather than ability, everyone loses.
A Growing Tide of Regret;
Across the country, the chorus of regret is growing louder. People who once believed their tribal or religious alignment with the president would automatically translate into better governance are now questioning their decisions. The reality has set in that governance requires more than shared identity; it demands competence, integrity, and a vision for the future.
One of the most striking realizations for many voters is that when you think you’re supporting your own, you may end up hurting yourself. The proverb holds true: in a country like Nigeria, where markets are often crowded with diverse people, a thrown stone doesn’t discriminate—it could hit anyone, even your own family. Those who supported a candidate based on sentiment are now bearing the brunt of poor leadership decisions that affect everyone, regardless of tribe or religion.
Sentiment vs Competence: The Critical Lesson;
As the country continues to face economic challenges—rising fuel prices, inflation, and unemployment—the regret among those who voted based on sentiment is palpable. It has become clear that choosing leaders based on tribal or religious affiliations does not guarantee prosperity or progress. The lesson here is profound: when Nigerians allow sentiment to cloud their judgment, they end up paying the price themselves.
The Emilokan regret is a painful reminder that leadership should never be about whose “turn” it is or which tribe or religion a candidate belongs to. Instead, it should be about who has the competence, experience, and vision to lead the country forward. Those who prioritized identity politics are now realizing that effective leadership is not about tribe but about delivering results that benefit all Nigerians.
Time to Put Sentiment Aside;
As the dust settles, there is a growing call for Nigerians to put sentiment aside when making decisions that will shape the nation’s future. The cost of allowing ethnic and religious sentiments to dictate voting choices is too high. It’s time to focus on competence, capability, and the ability to deliver real change.
The upcoming years will present another opportunity for Nigerians to reflect on this painful experience. The next election cycle should be a time for voters to prioritize what truly matters: good governance, economic stability, and security for all. Leaders who are willing to serve the people—regardless of their background—should be given a chance to rise, rather than those who simply play on emotions for political gain.
The Future Beyond Sentiment;
As Nigeria moves forward, this chapter in the country’s political history should serve as a warning to voters. The consequences of sentiment-driven politics are clear, and the regret is real. But there is hope. With each passing day, more Nigerians are waking up to the reality that effective leadership transcends ethnic and religious lines.
The time has come to break the cycle. The stone thrown into the market doesn’t have to hurt our own people if we aim carefully—choosing leaders who will lead with integrity, vision, and competence. Nigerians must take this lesson to heart if they are to secure a future that truly benefits everyone, not just a select few.
In the end, when the noise of sentiment fades away, what remains is the undeniable truth: only competence and accountability can lead Nigeria to the brighter future it deserves.
Peoplesmind