Calm down and listen, there are women who will marry you when you are broke, but in their minds they have a period of time that they’ll tolerate your poverty. If after that period you’ve not yet made it , you will see their true color. You will be disrespected, compared to others out there and your status as the man of the house will be ridiculed .
Do you think your woman will smile at you when there is no food home, kids hungry , kids driven away for feee and land lord knocking at the door? Even if they pretend to understand, it will not be forever. Women do not like men who have problems. Do not get yourself into this , depression might finally kpai you .
Get your money right , marry and care for your woman and kids , don’t fall into the trap of “we can manage “, you’ll see shegeh and question yourself as a man. As life no easy for you as a single man , imagine how it’ll be with kids and wife and real life challenges 🤦♂️🥹. Yes there are women that come into your life and things change but there are few . It’s risky to depend on luck. Don’t try it .
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