Relationship counselor, Solomon Buchi has enlightened the public about the benefits of marrying a virgin.
Buchiβs exposition was prompted by a tweet from an X user about marrying a virgin.
Buchi explained the dynamics, claiming that virgins had the lowest divorce rates, with a 65% chance of a happy marriage for women who married as virgins.
He noted that non-virgins are more likely to have low self-esteem, academic failure, and poor relationship choices.
Solomon Buchi wrote, βVirgins have the lowest divorce rates. Women who married as virgins have a 65% chance having a very happy marriage than their non-virgin counterpart. βWhen it comes to sex, less experience is better, at least for the marriage,β β institute for family studies.
β71% of men who have only slept with their spouse reported satisfaction with their marriage, while 64% women whoβve only had sex with their spouse say theyβre happy in their marriage.
βWomen whoβve had 6 to 10 sexual partners were 13 percent less likely to report marital happiness. For men who have slept with more than 21 partners, they were 15 percent less likely to say they were satisfied with their marriage.
βNon-virgins are projected to suffer more economic lack, low self esteem, academic failure and bad relationship choices.
βIn this pornographic world, virginity is a proof of discipline and focus. If anyone should be embarrassed, it should be the other party that revels in sexual promiscuity.
βThereβs nothing shameful about marrying on a clean slate. Most sexual problems in marriage stem from past sexual experiences. Lastly, even if there was no benefit of virginity, we ought to stay virgin till marriage because God commanded it. God is wise, Iβll rather follow Him, than follow the bandwagon.
βStop trying to ridicule virtue just because you lack it.β
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