By Myles Munroe
1. Love is a choice.
Love is not just a feeling. It is a choice. Choose to love your partner every day, even when it is difficult.
2. Personal wholeness is a prerequisite for a healthy relationship.
You cannot give what you do not have. Therefore, it is important to work on your own personal growth and development before entering into a serious relationship.
3. Dating is primarily for building friendship.
The primary purpose of dating is not to find a romantic partner, but to build a deep and meaningful friendship with someone.
This friendship will provide the foundation for a strong and lasting relationship.
4. There is no such thing as a “perfect match.”
No two people are perfectly compatible. Don’t spend your time looking for someone who is perfect for you. Instead, focus on finding someone who is a good fit for you, someone who you can love and respect, and who will love and respect you in return.
5. God knows who your ideal mate is.
If you are a Christian, trust that God has a plan for your life and that He knows who your ideal mate is. Pray for God’s guidance in choosing a partner, and be patient. He will lead you to the right person in His time.
6. Don’t rush into a relationship.
Take your time getting to know someone before you commit to a serious relationship. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and to share your own thoughts and feelings. It is important to make sure that you are both on the same page before you make any big decisions.
7. Be honest and transparent with each other.
Honesty and transparency are essential for any healthy relationship. Be honest with your partner about your past, your present, and your future. Don’t try to hide anything from them.
8. Respect each other’s boundaries.
It is important to respect each other’s boundaries, both physical and emotional. Don’t push your partner to do anything that they are not comfortable with.
9. Communicate openly and effectively.
Communication is key to any successful relationship. Be open and honest with your partner about your thoughts, feelings, and needs. Be a good listener, and be willing to compromise.
10. Be supportive of each other’s goals and dreams.
Encourage each other to pursue your goals and dreams. Be there for each other through thick and thin.
11. Celebrate each other’s successes.
Take the time to celebrate each other’s successes, both big and small. Let your partner know how proud you are of them.
12. Be forgiving.
Everyone makes mistakes. Be willing to forgive your partner when they make a mistake. Don’t hold grudges.
13. Be patient.
Building a strong and lasting relationship takes time and effort. Be patient with each other and with the process.
14. Don’t be afraid to seek help.
If you are struggling in your relationship, don’t be afraid to seek help from a trusted friend, family member, or counselor.
15. Never give up on each other.
No relationship is perfect. There will be times when you struggle. But if you are both committed to making it work, then you can overcome any challenge.
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