A woman I was dating and engaged asked me to purchase a wig for her.
I told her I didn’t have the resources for it at the moment.
She looked me in the eye with bitterness and told me as long as I kept “maltreating” her by denying her wants, God will keep doing same to me.
I stood up from the bed at that moment, had my bath and went to work.
I spent the whole day in introspection.
I projected 10 years into the future and I didn’t see any see any scenario I was going to have a supportive human as a wife or be really happy if I didn’t constantly renew my subscription with her.
I had to let her go for good. It was an extremely though decision as we had gone really far with preps to spending together for a lifetime but I knew that lifetime will be hell if I eventually sealed it.
2023 taught me a-lot and I will rather stay single or a baby daddy than settle for nonsense.”
Peoplesmind
