South African mother, Mrs Sonny whose daughter died in Lagos State in September 2014 when a guest house at late Prophet Temitope Balogun Joshuaβs Synagogue Church collapsed, has narrated how the late cleric threatened her to remain silent or her family would be wiped off.
Mrs Sonny, who lamented in regret how her daughter died in a place she thought would be a safe place for her, made the revelation in a now trending three-part investigation by the BBC.
Recall that a guest house of late Prophet Temitope Balogun Joshua, popularly known as TB Joshuaβs Synagogue Church of All Nations (SCOAN) collapsed in September 2014 in Lagos and killed at least 115 members and worshippers, including 84 South Africans.
Joshua died on June 5, 2021, but as part of its over two years investigation, the BBC interviewed over 30 former members and workers of the church who lamented their awful experiences in the church and how they lost their loved ones during the church collapse.
They also lamented how the late televangelist and the church showed no remorse to the death of their loved ones but gave some of them money in cash and asked them to be happy that their loved ones died in the house of God.
Displaying her daughterβs pictures, the grieving mother, Mrs Sonny lamented that it was her daughter, Sibingile, Princessβs first trip to Synagogue as she was looking forward to be there like everybody that she used to see on television.
βShe still had her teddy bears in her room and told her siblings to make sure they take care of them. She was this perfectionist,β she said.
Mrs Sonny said further that βYou see the miracles everyday on television and you will be like, this can only be the hand of God.β
The guest house was said to be where about 99 percent of the guests Prophet Joshua had then lodged.
Mrs Sonny said while her daughter was in Lagos, βI tried to call my daughter, tried to send an SMS but there was no response. That was when I could not breathe.β
She lamented that when she asked for information, the church could not give her any information, rather, they were asked to wait and pray.
βNo phone call from Synagogue. I couldnβt sleep. You know, you are waiting for the next day. You are waiting for the phone call. It was Sunday afternoon, TB Joshua came. It was a live service.
βOn television, they were showing us that the building was bombed. They were showing us aircraft. I heard from SCOAN after five days and they said, βwe are afraid your daughter did not make it.β
βMy daughter died in a place where I thought it safe. Because the Bible said, βBring your child in the way of the Lord. I made sure that they were always at church. I did not know I was taking them to church to be killed.
βThat is not what I was expecting. That part, I was not expecting.β
Sonny said that TB Joshua’s representatives came to her with money saying it was a gift but “When we refused taking the money, he started threatening us. He said, ‘your daughter won’t be happy if you don’t take the money’.
“He sent me these messages where he said, ‘If you focus on what you have lost, you might lose everything’. He threatened me that my whole family will go down the same way my daughter went down.”
A former disciple of the church in the documentary said that she was in South Africa when she was called and the instruction was that she should assist in going around to the families whose children, husbands or wives died in the church collapse incident and give them bags of money.
The former disciple said that βIt was scripted it, your relatives that have passed on are more privileged than you because they died in the house of the Lord. But we gave families cash, no transfer.
βWe would tell them, βyou must not speak to the media. You must say anything. Basically, we were silencing them.β
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