CATHY CATARINA Writes:
I get irritated seeing people creating drama over the issue of side chicks. When you get married to a man, focus on being a good wife. A man can have as many girlfriends as he wishes. If he wants, he can pay bride price six times and get six women.
Have you ever seen 30 bulls and one female cow in one kraal? Have you ever seen 30 roosters sharing one hen among chickens? Only the opposite is possible.
Be serious for once. There are few men who are responsible, just as you can find one bull managing 30 cows while the castrated ones are watching.
Some people, it’s not their fault to be side chicks. They have been in courtship after courtship with fake boys. Have you ever seen anyone dying just because they are in a polygamous marriage?
Selfishness and pride are what cause some of you to think you are better than unmarried girls. A man can impregnate 500 women in a year but a woman will only get pregnant đŸ¤° once. So men can have many wives or girlfriend. If your husband comes to me because you don’t treat him well I will date him. I will accept to be his second wife. If you run away then I have won him to myself.
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